Q: I’m in my mid-30s and have never been married. I have been dating a man for the last few months. I have polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) and cannot have children. At what point in our dating relationship should I share that kind of information? It is a very emotional situation for me. Thank you for your advice.

Jim: First, I’m sorry to learn of your inability to conceive. At Focus we often hear from women who have struggled with infertility in various forms, and we know how difficult it can be.

I ran your question by our counseling team, and as for when to reveal this information to your boyfriend, the consensus was clear -- the sooner the better. If you’re in your 30s and have been dating several months, I’d be surprised if the subject of marriage hasn’t been raised already. Although it may be painful to talk about, this is the type of information your boyfriend needs to know. It establishes and open and honest relationship, too.